St. Benedict's twelve steps of humility guide monks in their spiritual journey, emphasizing the importance of humility in achieving a closer relationship with God. Overview of the Twelve Steps of Humility St. Benedict outlines the twelve steps of humility in Chapter 7 of his Rule, emphasizing that humility is essential for spiritual growth and the attainment of divine grace. Here’s a summary of each step: 

  1. Fear of God: Always keep the fear of God before your eyes, remembering His commandments and the consequences of sin.
  2. Self-Will: Do not be wedded to your own will; instead, seek to fulfill God's will in all things.
  3. Obedience: Submit to the authority of your superiors and obey their commands as if they were God's.
  4. Silence: Speak only when necessary and avoid excessive talk, which can lead to pride and distraction.
  5. Humility in Action: Perform your duties with a humble heart, recognizing that all actions are seen by God.
  6. Avoiding Pride: Recognize that pride leads to downfall; strive to remain humble in all circumstances.
  7. The seventh step is attained when one not only confesses that he is an inferior and common wretch, but believes it to his very core. He must be willing to humble himself.
  8. One reaches the eighth step of humility when he does only
    that which is demanded by the common rule of his seniors.
  9. The ninth step can be achieved when one, practicing silence, only speaks when asked a question.
  10. The tenth step is climbed when one restrains himself from
    undue laughter and frivolity.
  11. To reach the eleventh step, one must speak gently, without
    jests, but simply, seriously, tersely, rationally and softly.
  12. The final step is attained only when one can at all times
    show humility not only in his appearance and actions, but also in his heart.